“Where I’m Going” by the Wild Reeds (Blind and Brave album.)

Talk about a song that hits you in the face from the get, at least it does for me with the sailing lyrics of the intro. This song is great for a couple of reasons for me: 1. Gutwrenching, soul-full, bluesy, and folk all in one – all things that I love. 2. It’s really fun to sing along with, especially if you love some twangy harmonies.

But most importantly, 3. It’s honest.

[Buy it; add it to your Spotify playlist, love it, etc. Also, watch their TinyDesk Concert, its the first song! Link is here]

This isn’t the breakup song full of spite and anger, fists pumping in the air –  as if that’s the only formula for picking oneself back up after heartache or major disappointment. The strength of the lyrics is infusing to the soul for me “Where this ship is sailing, it don’t need a captain of the crew. And where this train is traveling, the tracks lead me far away from you.” It’s decisive and brave. . . but doesn’t lack vulnerability. “I never needed your company, but I surely longed for you.” The lyrics are strong and powerful – but honest.

I love these lyrics. It doesn’t deny the value of the past or invalidate the pain of the present, in order to make a path forward. And I did not suffer from a major break up or heartache this year, but life has been a struggle. And there’s something beautifully touching about the bravery of this song. In fact, I think what drew me to this album (which lead to this song) was the name of the album. “Blind and Brave” – I feel like that some times. Don’t you?

But that’s OK. You see “I’m chasing the wind, I’m leaving on whims and I’m learning a thing or two.” And on days, when I’m feeling a little less brave, maybe this is a song that can help remind me it’s OK to not know where I’m going all the time.

UPDATE: The Wild Reeds are playing at The Rebel Lounge on March 20….I think I have to go.